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Just because you can carry everything on your plate doesn't mean you should. High-capacity leaders often normalize heavy loads. I've certainly done it plenty throughout my career. We pride ourselves on being capable, resilient, dependable, and unstoppable. Those qualities can serve us well, but they can also work against us. Somewhere along the way, we begin to mistake overextension for commitment. We wear exhaustion like a badge of honor. But endurance isn’t the same as effectiveness, and...
Recently, our Beacon & Blade team gathered for our quarterly offsite. We call it The Forge, and it’s a day we carve out each quarter to slow down, connect, and strengthen one another. It's always a life-giving experience, and it consistently demonstrates something that can be easy to forget in the busyness of leadership: Growth doesn’t just happen through execution. It happens through connection. Great teams aren’t built by simply developing a strong strategy or aligning around common goals....
Some lessons can’t be learned in victory. They’re forged in defeat. This fall, my son made his school’s JV soccer team. After spending recent years playing in our local town travel league, this was a significant step up for him. Not only would he be practicing and playing a lot more than he was used to, he'd be alongside stronger players, experiencing tougher competition, and having to adapt to a faster pace. We were proud, hopeful, and ready for what we thought would be a season of growth....